Communication is communicating! Non-verbal children on the spectrum should be given a choice in communication.

Throughout my many years of working as a Board Certified Behavior Analyst with adults and children with Autism and developmental disabilities, I found it interesting that parents and caregivers always would like for their loved one on the spectrum to communicate in the way that is preferred by the parent or caregiver.

Whether picture communication, assisted technology device, or sign language, all of these qualify as legitimate communication.

(Functional Communication Training: The Strength of Evidence Across Disabilities https://doi.org/10.1177/0014402918793399).

Resarch-based evidence has proven that when you can utilize communication to replace the function of a behavior, you can see a reduction and possibly extinction of that behavior.

To sum it all up, utilize the communication preference that works best for your loved one on the spectrum. If they excel at utilizing electronic devices and use them appropriately, then maybe they should use an assistive technology device. On occasion, children who aren't technologically savvy but still learned to be proficient utilizing devices such as iPads and speech tablets. If they communicate through pointing and gesturing, maybe sign language will be appropriate for that individual.

All individuals have a method that can possibly work for them, and they should not be held back by family members or caregivers who want to force their communication preference onto their child or loved one. We should take into account which communication method is being favored and used by the person on the spectrum and continue to increase that usage until it is proficient. Also, what is most important is that your loved one is able to communicate and use their "voice" however they are capable.