Is stimming bad??

Why does my child with autism stem?

3  facts about stimming

Parents often are concerned about stimming behaviors , from rocking, humming, biting shirts, hand flapping etc parents are concerned and confused.

1. We all stim when our brain isn’t engaged.  Some doodle, some shake their leg, and others may whistle.  The main point here is when our brain isn’t “engaged” we will possibly engage in stimming behaviors.  So is stemming bad?  There is no yes or no answer. It would be different for each individual and if the stimulatory behaviors are dangerous such as placing inedible objects in mouth or sticking items in power sockets.

2. Why does my child stem?  Often times but not every-time children with autism stem because they aren’t engaged with anything that interest them.  If a child with autism isn’t engaged with something that stimulates their brain they’ll engage in stimming behaviors instead.  It may be a good idea as a parent to determine what actually stimulates your child and have them engage with that activity to reduce stimming.

3. Is there a time when stimming is appropriate? As long as the stimming behavior isn’t dangerous it is ok to engage in stimming when it is appropriate.  For example, it may not be appropriate to have stimming behaviors such as humming or hand flapping while in a public place or special event.  If you can teach and guide your child to engage in these behaviors when they are in an appropriate place this can help reduce stimming and also give the child an opportunity to stem without being stigmatized.  During downtime in their room tell them it’s ok to stem.  Maybe incorporate a timer to signal when to start and stop stimming.  Many adults on the spectrum have learned when to stem and when not to and has helped them be successful in settings such as work and social events.  All stimming isn’t bad and each case should be treated differently.  As always, consult an Autism treatment professional to get assistance with stimming/ stereotypy behaviors.